Yes, I’ll Take The “Get Me Off This Planet” Meal To-Go, Please

I’ll never understand how after so many successes, one tiny fallback feels like an even greater number of failures. Besides the two hours of sleep I got this morning (7-9), I only got another thirty minute nap after I got home from my first class. The first four or five days of this I was alright and it didn’t bother me much, but now it’s turned into straight up insomnia. My eyes are tired, my body aches, and I want sleep, but I can’t find myself to do it. Usually it’s because my mind has too many thoughts going on but now even that is at a minimum. I’m so damn tired my brain actually got tired–that’s some rare shit right there.

But whatever.

My writing gets huge respects at college. My professor wants to give my paper to someone he knows over the hill who would be delighted to read something like that. So I started off the class feeling great (besides the knives in my eyeballs).

Well, almost great. When I walked in the classroom two people were talking and they both stopped when I sat near them. I feel like they know all the things I write about the class in this blog and I feel like they’ve read it and they hate me. I feel like they think I’m some kind of teachers pet or something. I don’t know. But I feel distanced from everyone in that class. I feel like they’re all giving me the cold shoulder because they know what I’ve written.

Which is weird because I never called them dumb in any of these posts, I just said some of their answers and questions were shallow.

Which I guess sounds stupid coming from the fucking mute of the class. Last week I expressed, in my essay, by pure coincidence, to the whole class that I am not a talker. I can’t think when I speak. This week I got called on (not that I mind) but I’m running on two hours of sleep and I already suck ass at expressing myself verbally, especially about poetry. I loved the 90 page poem, but I couldn’t even squeak that tiny, shallow opinion out. All I could say is um . . . I’m pretty tired tonight.

Great going fucking idiot. I mean, out of all the things I could say . . . that’s what I come up with? My mind went completely blank. And the longer I sat there in silence feeling the two chicks next to me staring at me, the harder my heart thumped and the redder my face turned and the tighter my throat constricted and the more blank my mind went, as if I had a time limit to respond and as if my response needed to be something from the Gods lest I wanted them to hang me at the gallows. Which honestly, in the moment, I wouldn’t have cared if they snapped my neck. He said it was okay and that I didn’t have to talk but that just made me feel like even more of an idiot. Now they all know for real that I’m fucking stupid. That’s what that boils down to. I just know they’re thinking “she’s fucking weird dude” or “aw, that’s sad” or “yeah, not so smart now are you?”. Whatever. Mentally I took about fifty steps backwards in that four second interval of stupidity.

I should have written down some points while we were reading. I fucking know that’s what I have to do in these situations; why didn’t I do that? I know I have to be ten steps ahead of everyone to appear to be stepping beside them like a “normal” person would. I know that. I’ve done it before just to avoid looking like a fucking idiot  like I just did tonight.

So I think about that while I sit there and I start feeling guilty for being a good writer and a shitty talker. I feel guilty for being one of the two other people in the class with native decent (one dude isn’t in the class but he stops by every once in a while; he’s a really eloquent speaker and thoughtful) and making us all sound like idiots. I feel like I let every single native person down in the history of life in that four seconds.

So I came to the logical conclusion that I should kill myself.

Now wait–I’m not going to kill myself. But within the minute of that whole ordeal, what I just explained–getting called on, mind going blank, e.t.c, that was my resulting conclusion: kill myself.

How does that even make sense? How do I go from completely blank in the head to suddenly flooding and then feeling like I shouldn’t live anymore because I’m a disgrace and everyone thinks I’m an idiot? I mean, honestly: I’m impressed. I can’t lie. The brain is a mysterious thing.

Obviously If I break down in the middle of class, I would have looked like a fucking crazy person (ha ha fucking ha) and that would have made the whole situation worse, so I kept sucking it back for another forty five minutes until I was in my car and safe from any of their fucking eyes. I breathed, I focused on other things in the surrounding area like the little blinky light on the back of a bicyclists’ bike or the faded tail light of the car in front of me or the ugly green ass street signs, e.t.c. It helped, actually. My mind got pulled away for a while and I gained control of myself.

Until I stopped paying attention to other things and then they all came flooded back and I listened to my brain say “just shoot yourself in the head, that’s what you should do”.

I swear, I’m not thinking these things on purpose. Sometimes they don’t even feel like thoughts–or at least not mine. And it’s never “I should shoot myself” it’s always “you should shoot yourself” as if I’m not the person in my brain giving me those thoughts.

Ehhhhh . . . I don’t like how that sounds: I don’t believe thoughts are being transmitted to me, I’m just saying it feels like the thoughts are not mine. They happen too randomly, that’s the problem. They’ll pop up while I’m in the shower and I’ll literally say “fuck off” out loud to get them to quiet down. Usually happens in the morning. They’ll pop up while I’m sitting in a group or just chilling with my boyfriend or when I’m trying to go to sleep or when I’m watching a YouTube video. Sometimes it happens a lot of times in one day, sometimes it happens once, sometimes it doesn’t happen at all. I don’t know man, I don’t know.

And it’s not always “shoot yourself” or “kill yourself”, sometimes it’s just things like “well, if you weren’t so fucking stupid” or I don’t know, random things. Things I can respond to with either a “shut up”, a “fuck you” or a “shhhhhh”. I don’t know how to explain this, obviously.

I realized I typed “they”. Well, you know how while you’re reading this you hear that little voice of yours in your head reading to you? It sounds like that except it doesn’t sound like the one I think or read in. I think I say “they” because it’s always more than one thought. I don’t know.

None of that interferes with my daily life besides, you know . . . it’s weird when you have to walk down the street shushing yourself and saying “fuck you” out loud. That tends to turn people off. It annoys me obviously but It’s not that big of a deal, honestly. If it was everyday and it kept me from focusing on things, then I’d be worried. As of now it just bugs me when it happens when I’m already having a tough time–that’s when it’s hard.

As of right now, I feel kind of calm. My legs are still bouncing and my heart is still beating a little fast but writing this all out really helped. Just to be clear, I’m not going to shoot myself. I don’t have a gun, remember?

The sad part in all of this? I can’t remember a word of the second half of class, I was so stuck in my head.

Sleep would probably do me well.

The good news in all this? If those fuckers in my class are reading these posts, they now have definitive evidence that I’m crazy.

Late Night

I took a forty minute nap yesterday evening because my eyes just couldn’t take it any longer. I woke up at 9pm, stared at my computer for a few more hours, then left to help my boyfriend finish his speech which is going to be given in a few hours. It’s 5:22 am. My eyes still hurt but my leg can’t stop jiggling and I’m so so so ready to study all this afternoon. I’ll probably take a little bit of a nap just to recharge my eyeballs but I don’t think I’ll be needing a lot of sleep. As long as I have my orange juice, I’m good.

I’m addicted to orange juice. Not a joke. I pour in half orange juice, half water, and I sit at my beautifully kept desk:


and stay busy. I flip through flipboard, I get lost in Amnesia: The Dark Decent, I touch up any of my writing projects, and soon it’ll be where I edit all of my photos. This thing is my entire life, it really is. I feel most comfortable in this little corner in my room than I do anywhere else in the world. My eyes are starting to fail me, I can see all the typos I’m having to go back and fix. Damn eyes. What is there problem? Why can’t they keep up with my brain?

With a 24 inch screen, it’s hard not to get obsessed with this thing. You can’t see in this picture, but at my feet there’s a subwoofer attached to those two little speakers and that’s how I annoy the neighbors. This shit bumps, man; it’s the best 20 bucks I ever spent. It’s got the same quality sub-woofer that’s in my car.

At first, I paid 40 dollars (for the speaker system) but got anal when amazon told me there was a problem with my delivery and that I needed to “contact them”. It didn’t say why or who, just that I needed to contact them. So I started freaking out before I even realized the dumbass company shipping my package tried delivering it on Sunday and sent a huge error through the system. Anyway, before I thought about that, I contacted Paraheem Kareem at Amazon tech services. He assured me I would get my package the day it said I would.  I wasn’t satisfied with that answer when a day later the status of the package still hadn’t been updated. So I contacted them again. I expressed my worry and this guy in India probably didn’t know what the hell was going on, so he just refunded me all my shipping cost. So I basically got half off. It pays to be anal and nice to customer service reps.

That’s how I got my computer for two hundred dollars less than It was originally priced. That computer is the reason for all my frustrations in my Best Buy, You Sneaky Bastard! post. All that anger and worry and panic over this device. Yes, it’s true. But now it’s here and I love it and I’m very satisfied with the product. Windows 10 is a little wonky, and Microsoft STILL OWES ME MY TEN FUCKING DOLLARS but it’s okay.

I’ll get them sooner or later.

They could learn a thing or two from Amazon customer service.

Like hire people in India who don’t understand anything and just give you your money back.

Also, the scariest shit happened tonight. It was about 1 am and my boyfriend and I just got back to his house from picking up snacks at a local CVS 24 hour market. I parked across the street from his house because his driveway only fits two cars. We were walking across the street in the rain and BOOM.

The fucking lights went out. Everywhere. I swear to God some shit was about to pop up out of the sewer or some demons were going to swoop down and drag us to hell. I mean I couldn’t see my feet in front of me, it was that dark.

Then lightening went crazy in the sky far off in the direction of my house, which was kind of weird because most of the sky was relatively clear. It was raining, but it was light and in fits and burst. We could see the starts except for the area with the lightening. The Aliens are here you guys, they’re here. I’ll offer them a cheese platter. Hopefully they like cheese.

I hope whoever got stabbed or shot is alright. If they got killed, I’m even more sorry. I passed by a street with two fire trucks, an ambulance, and six separate cop cars. They blocked the entire road with vehicles, tape, and bodies. Some people from the surrounding complex stood around watching. I couldn’t see exactly what was going on, too many things in the way of my eyes, but usually that amount of manpower calls for a serious crime committed.

Anyway, I have emails to answer and a quick nap to take so my eyes can stop being such little assholes. I also have class in about four hours. Ug. Hopefully the power is all fucked up at my college. They usually cancel morning classes. That would be a dream come true. Everyone cross your fingers for me.

I’ll post something less idiotic and more relevant later.